Mary Bowes-Lyon, Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne

Mary Pamela Bowes-Lyon, Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne (née McCorquodale; 21 May 1932 – 28 April 2025) was a British peeress and châtelaine of Glamis Castle.

The Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne
Born
Mary Pamela McCorquodale

(1932-05-21)21 May 1932
Mayfair, London, England
Died28 April 2025(2025-04-28) (aged 92)
Spouse
Children

Early life and education

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Mary was born on 21 May 1932 at her grandparents' house in Mayfair, London. Her father, Brigadier Norman Duncan McCorquodale MC (1898–1971), was the grandson of George McCorquodale, founder of McCorquodale & Company Limited, once one of the largest publishing houses in the United Kingdom. She was raised at Braehead House, west of Edinburgh, until her father inherited Winslow Hall in Buckinghamshire.[1]

She was educated at home with a governess before attending finishing school at Brondesbury-at-Stocks and in Paris. She was presented to George VI in 1950.[2]

Marriage and family

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Glamis Castle

Mary met Captain Fergus Bowes-Lyon, then an officer in the Scots Guards, in Germany in 1955. They were married at St Margaret's, Westminster, on 10 April 1956 in a ceremony attended by the groom's aunt, Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother, and cousins, Queen Elizabeth II and Princess Margaret.[3] The couple settled in the White House on his cousin's Glamis Castle estate. They had three children:

On 13 September 1972, her husband succeeded his cousin as 17th and 4th Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne, thus Mary became Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne. The Strathmores moved into Glamis Castle at Easter in 1975. Mary and her husband made improvements to the castle's visitor areas as well as their private living quarters.[1][2]

Mary was widowed on 19 August 1987, when her husband collapsed while shooting grouse on the grounds of Glamis Castle and died en route to hospital. He was succeeded by their son, Michael.[6]

Later life

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On 11 May 1989, she was appointed a deputy lieutenant of Angus, a role held by her late husband.[7] In 2002, she was granted an honorary Doctor of Laws from the University of Dundee.[8] In 2005, she hosted the wives of world leaders attending the 31st G8 summit at Glamis.[9]

Through her role as president of the Tayside Space School, Mary came to befriend a number of NASA astronauts. Alvin Drew made a telephone call to the Countess from the International Space Station on the final voyage of the Space Shuttle Discovery. In 2011, he became her co-chieftain of the Glamis Highland Games.[10] Another, James F. Reilly, was married in the private chapel at Glamis and christened his children there.[9] Reilly presented the chapel with a Celtic cross made from a silver medallion that had been to space.[1][2]

Styled as Dowager Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne since her husband's death in 1987, she died on 28 April 2025, at the age of 92.[1][2]

References

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  1. 1 2 3 4 "The Dowager Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne, gregarious chatelaine of Glamis Castle". The Telegraph. 9 May 2025. Retrieved 4 January 2026.
  2. 1 2 3 4 "The Dowager Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne obituary". The Times. 30 May 2025. Retrieved 26 December 2025.
  3. "Queen's Cousin Weds". British Pathé. Retrieved 31 August 2024.
  4. "The Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne - obituary". The Telegraph. 29 February 2016. Retrieved 3 August 2024.
  5. "Engagement is announced at Glamis Castle". The Herald. 3 May 1990. Retrieved 23 December 2025.
  6. "Earl of Strathmore Is Dead; A Cousin of Queen Elizabeth". The New York Times. 19 August 1987. Retrieved 11 October 2008.
  7. "No. 51737". The London Gazette. 17 May 1989. p. 5871.
  8. Strunck, Clara (7 May 2025). "The Dowager Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne – chatelaine of Glamis Castle and Queen Elizabeth's childhood friend – dies aged 92". Tatler. Retrieved 4 January 2026.
  9. 1 2 Brown, Graham (15 February 2020). "Glamis Castle Stars and Stripes adds another transatlantic chapter to its fascinating story". The Courier. Retrieved 4 January 2026.
  10. "Astronaut Alvin Drew's special mission to Strathmore Highland Games". The Courier. 23 April 2011. Retrieved 4 January 2026.