Mariam Dabboussy is an Australian woman who lived in Islamic State (IS)-controlled Syria.[1][2]

Mariam Dabboussy
Born1992 (age 3334)
Known forlived in IS-controlled Syria

Dabboussy told The New York Times that she never planned to enter IS territory.[3] She said she traveled to Turkey with her husband, on what he said was an expedition to help his relatives escape Syria; his brother Muhammad was there.[4] But she claimed she was the victim of a trick, and that once they were within walking distance of the border, he pulled a gun and forced her into Syria at gunpoint.

The Australian television series Four Corners devoted an episode to Dabboussy.[2] Dabboussy raised her veil during her television interview, an act she said could trigger retaliation from the most devout occupants of the al-Hawl refugee camp.[5] She told reporters that her brother-in-law, Muhammad Zahab, was a senior IS member.[4]

Early life, marriage and travel to Syria

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Dabboussy grew up in Sydney's western suburbs in a middle-class home. She worked in child care and at a migrant support service. She was not a devout Muslim as a child, but became more religious after marrying Kaled Zahab in 2011, at age 22.[4][5]

In mid-2015, the couple and their 18-month-old child went to Turkey on their first overseas vacation, where they were later joined by Khaled's parents. His brother Muhammad was already in Syria. Dabboussy said she didn't know where she was until she saw the Islamic State flag flying, and that she had been "conned by the boys", meaning her husband and his brother Muhammad, who had facilitated Kaled's passage into IS territory with his family.[4]

Muhammad had brought at least a dozen Australians, mostly family members, into IS, including his wife, Mariam Raad, their two children; his parents, Hicham and Aminah; his sister, Samaya; his cousin, Nesrine; and his brothers, Kaled and Yusuf. He was killed in an airstrike in Iraq in 2018.[4]

Fate of self and relatives under ISIL

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Three months after the couple's arrival in ISIL territory, while Kaled was still in military training, he was killed in an airstrike on his training camp. Dabboussy, pregnant at the time, gave birth a short time later. She said she was forced to remarry twice after Kaled was killed, and her second husband was also killed when she was nine months pregnant with her third child. In 2019, she and her children escaped ISIL's last territorial stronghold in Baghuz.[4]

In 2022, Dabboussy was repatriated with her children after being flown from Iraq to New South Wales.[6] They were part of a group of four Australian women and thirteen children who were repatriated: Dabboussy and her three children, Raad and her four children, Shayma Assad and her four children, and Shayma's mother Bassima Assad and her two children.[7] The children received medical services and counseling after arrival.[8]

See also

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References

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  1. Livia Albeck-Ripka (2019-10-21). "Desperate Pleas to Free Women and Children From ISIS Camps in Syria". The New York Times. p. A8. Retrieved 2020-07-22. 'It's tough; it's scary,' he told his daughter, Mariam, during a recent phone call. Mr. Dabboussy tried to comfort her. 'We're still pushing,' he said.
  2. 1 2 Livia Albeck-Ripka (2019-10-25). "'My Grandchild Is Not a Terrorist'". The New York Times. p. A2. Retrieved 2020-07-22.
  3. Livia Albeck-Ripka (2019-10-24). "Does Australia Have to Bring Its Women and Children Home From Syria's Camps?". The New York Times. Retrieved 2020-07-22. While the details of many of the women's stories are unknown, some have come forward to explain themselves, including Mariam Dabboussy. She says that in late 2015, she was forced by gunpoint over the Turkish border with Syria, after traveling there in what her husband claimed was an attempt to extract a relative who was trying to escape the Islamic State.
  4. 1 2 3 4 5 6 "Australia's unwanted Islamic State brides reveal their identities". ABC News. 2019-09-29. Retrieved 2026-03-18.
  5. 1 2 Benedict Brook (2019-10-01). "From blushing Aussie bride to IS widow". The Chronicle. Retrieved 2020-07-22. Another looks vastly different to her Australian wedding photos. In the pictures, Mariam Dabboussy, smiles broadly, hair down to her shoulders. Now she sits head to toe in black, visibly wizened.
  6. Gregory, James (2022-10-29). "Australian families of IS fighters repatriated from Syrian camp". BBC News. Retrieved 2024-10-15.
  7. Taouk, Maryanne (2022-10-29). "'Willing to do whatever is asked': Women repatriated from Syria regret trouble caused". ABC News. Retrieved 2026-03-28.
  8. OKeefe, Chris; Carfrae, Imogen (2022-11-01). "Islamic State families seen in suburban Sydney after rescue from Syria". 9 News. Retrieved 2026-03-28.