I'm Not There for You

"I'm Not There For You"
"I'm Not There For You"
Single by Jessie Murph
Released	October 24, 2025
Recorded	2025
Genre	Pop
Length	2:19
Label	Columbia
Songwriters	Jessie Murph; Omer Fedi; Henry Walter; Laura Veltz;
Producers	Fedi; Cirkut; Steve Rusch;
Jessie Murph singles chronology

"I'm Not There For You" is a song by American singer Jessie Murph, from the deluxe edition of her second studio album, Sex Hysteria (2025). The song was released on October 24, 2025, through Columbia Records. It was produced by Omer Fedi, Cirkut and Steve Rusch.

Background

Jessie Murph originally wrote the song when she was 17 years old and previewed a sample of it online in 2022, following which it became a fan favorite^[1]^[2] and was used in over 100,000 TikTok creations.^[2] Murph rewrote and re-recorded the song in 2025.^[1]^[2]

Composition and lyrics

The song is accompanied by a strummed guitar and finds Murph dismissing an ex-boyfriend. She starts with the chorus, "I'm not there for you, I don't know your name / I ain't there for you, I don't feel a thing / Nothing left for you, yeah, I mean it, you fucked up / I ain't there for you, no". In the second verse, she proclaims that she has grown much stronger since she left him and no longer relies on him.^[2]

Charts

Chart performance for "I'm Not There For You"
Chart (2025)	Peak position
Australia (ARIA)^[3]	92
Canada Hot 100 (Billboard)^[4]	33
New Zealand Hot Singles (RMNZ)^[5]	3
US Billboard Hot 100^[6]	66

References

1 2 Rossignol, Derrick (October 24, 2025). "Jessie Murph Updates 'I'm Not There For You,' An Early Fan Favorite, With A New Recording". Uproxx. Retrieved 6 November 2025.
1 2 3 4 Okechukwu, Nmesoma (October 25, 2025). "Jessie Murph – I'm Not There For You". Euphoria Magazine. Retrieved 6 November 2025.
↑ "The ARIA Report: Week Commencing 3 November 2025". The ARIA Report. No. 1861. Australian Recording Industry Association. November 6, 2025. p. 4.
↑ "Jessie Murph Chart History (Canadian Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved November 6, 2025.
↑ "NZ Hot Singles Chart". Recorded Music NZ. October 31, 2025. Retrieved November 6, 2025.
↑ "Jessie Murph Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved November 6, 2025.

[Uproxx-1] 1 2 Rossignol, Derrick (October 24, 2025). "Jessie Murph Updates 'I'm Not There For You,' An Early Fan Favorite, With A New Recording". Uproxx. Retrieved 6 November 2025.

[Euphoria-2] 1 2 3 4 Okechukwu, Nmesoma (October 25, 2025). "Jessie Murph – I'm Not There For You". Euphoria Magazine. Retrieved 6 November 2025.

[3] "The ARIA Report: Week Commencing 3 November 2025". The ARIA Report. No. 1861. Australian Recording Industry Association. November 6, 2025. p. 4.

[sc_Canada_Jessie_Murph-4] "Jessie Murph Chart History (Canadian Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved November 6, 2025.

[5] "NZ Hot Singles Chart". Recorded Music NZ. October 31, 2025. Retrieved November 6, 2025.

[sc_Billboardhot100_Jessie_Murph-6] "Jessie Murph Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved November 6, 2025.

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